Matt Litton | Son of a 16-Year Mesothelioma Survivor

The son of a 16-year mesothelioma survivor discusses the emotions and challenges that have shaped his life since his mother’s cancer diagnosis.

Matt was 21 years old when his mother, Jill Litton, was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma.

Matt was already close to his mother, but as the news of her life-changing diagnosis sank in, he realized that he wanted to spend as much time with her and the rest of his family as possible. Despite a grueling treatment plan, Jill miraculously became a long-term survivor.

Today, Matt shares how his mother’s cancer diagnosis has impacted his family, explains the changes he’s noticed in his own life, and offers a firsthand look at how mesothelioma affects patients, families, and caregivers.

How a Mesothelioma Diagnosis Strengthened Family Bonds

When Jill was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma 16 years ago, Matt and his family were devastated. Although they didn’t yet grasp the scope of the cancer and how it would impact their future, they were scared of losing Jill or watching her suffer. Matt resolved to stick by his mother’s side throughout her journey.

“Since having understood the severity of the situation, I have visited my parents every single week, spending quality time with them and my nieces.”
– Matt Litton, son of 16-year mesothelioma survivor Jill Litton

The uncertainty surrounding the cause of Jill’s cancer weighed heavily on the family. Some relatives and doctors now believe that Jill developed mesothelioma from secondhand asbestos exposure during her father’s service in the U.S. Navy. Like many patients from military families, she may have been exposed when her dad unknowingly carried asbestos fibers home on his clothing.

The family worked through the initial shock of Jill’s mesothelioma diagnosis and grew even closer. Matt recalls his mom leaning on her faith in God to help her get through each day.

“She never takes any day for granted and spends whatever time she can with my nieces and me,” he said.

Read more about how the Littons and other families navigated life after a diagnosis in our Free Mesothelioma Survivors Guide.

Maintaining Hope Through Hardship

As Jill underwent mesothelioma treatment, the Litton family stayed united behind her, but there were challenges along the way.

Matt saw how brutal chemotherapy was for his mother — more so than for other patients. It was common for Jill to spend a week in the hospital, where she needed round-the-clock care to manage debilitating side effects like intense nausea and fatigue.

Every time Jill’s medical team announced she’d completed the latest chemo, Matt saw it as a massive blessing. Through it all, he saw his family as his greatest source of hope.

“As we all age, it becomes increasingly clear to me what a gift family is and how much love helps us through hardships.”
– Matt Litton, son of 16-year mesothelioma survivor Jill Litton

Still, more than 16 years later, he continues to lean on his family to stay positive. “Each time she has to go in for a bi-yearly scan, you can’t help but think of what it may show or think the worst could be right around the corner,” he said.

Thinking of a world without his mother is still difficult and painful, which is why he prioritizes their relationship to this day. Knowing he’ll never get “a redo button” has strengthened Matt’s ties with his whole family, making him more aware of and grateful for every day with them.

How to Support a Loved One With Mesothelioma

Considering himself a “Mr. Fix-It,” Matt struggled to accept that there was nothing he could do to cure his mother’s cancer. However, he found some comfort in accepting that the best thing he could do was be there for her during treatment.

“My advice to others in a similar circumstance is to be there for the person with the illness. As hard as it is to think of them not being around, it’s most definitely harder on them to go through this major challenge, and they need someone to lean on.”
– Matt Litton, son of 16-year mesothelioma survivor Jill Litton

He also wants others to know just how devastating mesothelioma can be — physically, emotionally, and financially. “It’s a form of terror,” Matt reflected.

Despite this, Matt was inspired by Jill’s mental fortitude to keep fighting. He now knows there’s no one stronger than his mother. As he’s gotten to spend more time with her, he explains that he just wants to scream at the sky for the relief he feels.

Mesothelioma Hope Is Here to Help You and Your Family

Matt’s story is personal, but not unique — thousands of families are affected by mesothelioma every year. Mesothelioma Hope is here to support families at every step of their journey, helping them care for loved ones and themselves during this challenging time.

If your loved one has mesothelioma, we can help you find: